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In defining “Trans-Sexual” or “Cross-Sexual” were are referring to sexuality that crosses boundaries of the male and the female, allowing them to realize a reversal in sexual function and roles. What does “French” kissing have to do with this?

Biologists believe that the reason humans kiss is because of previous modeling in the history of our species. It is believed that babies, after they finished breast feeding, would be given food via the mother’s mouth. What would happen is that the mother would take food into her mouth, masticate (chew) it, then feed the infant by locking her lips on the infant’s lips; and thus moving the food into the infant’s mouth using her tongue and lips. With the advent of “baby food” there is no longer a need to do this, as the infant’s food comes right out of a jar. But it is believed, that from the beginnings of the human race, that this is how babies were fed. It is still not uncommon in some parts of the world for babies to be fed this way.

Anyway, this is why biologists feel that the act of “kissing” has such an impact on us. It takes us back to a time when we felt warm, safe, and comforted by our mothers. When two couples “kiss,” they re-ignite this age-old mechanism of feeding and makes us feel, not only good, but makes us feel aroused for some reason. The arousal state may have something to do with our increased comfort level.

Back to the point of cross-sexuality and “French” kissing. I wrote a previous article outlining the neurological influences (in which there are many) that makes such a type of kiss, very neurologically-sensory stimulating. But there is another aspect to “French” kissing that also needs to be addressed.

In a heterosexual relationship you have a man and a woman. The man’s genitals are forthright and protruding, whereas the woman’s genitals are basically hidden and recessed. The man has the Sword and the woman has the Sheath for the sword. In normal sexual terms, the sword is placed in the sheath to procreate and increase the pleasure a man and a woman can experience together.

With “French” kissing there exists another aspect. This is the “cross-sexual” aspect that was aforementioned. In the act of “French” kissing, the man can convert his mouth into a make-shift vagina to accept the tongue of the woman and her make-shift phallic appendage. Meaning, he can reverse his sexual role and receive her sword and he becomes the sheath. It also allows her to “cross” into the realm of the forthright male and become the sword, thus reversing her typical sexual role.

This reversal of roles is another factor as to why “French” kissing is so erotic
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